[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.rypson.cz\/spravny-cas-na-dite\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.rypson.cz\/spravny-cas-na-dite\/","headline":"Spr\u00e1vn\u00fd \u010das na d\u00edt\u011b","name":"Spr\u00e1vn\u00fd \u010das na d\u00edt\u011b","description":"Za dob na\u0161ich maminek, i babi\u010dek to bylo jednoduch\u00e9. Pokud dvacetilet\u00e1 holka nebyla vdan\u00e1, a netla\u010dila p\u0159ed sebou ko\u010d\u00e1r, n\u011bco nebylo v po\u0159\u00e1dku a rodi\u010de m\u011bli obavy, \u017ee \u0159jim holka z\u016fstane na ocet. \u00a0 Dnes to je kap\u00e1nek jinak, tak\u017ee spousta \u017een se p\u0159ed mate\u0159stv\u00edm rozhoduje, zda ned\u00e1 p\u0159ednost rad\u011bji kari\u00e9\u0159e p\u0159ed rodinou. Jak je…","datePublished":"2025-02-26","dateModified":"2023-04-30","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.rypson.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.rypson.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/a231d13c7dfc9c75f2343f864438f5ab9c0bfebd1aa37dfd3bb16118c04f838c?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/a231d13c7dfc9c75f2343f864438f5ab9c0bfebd1aa37dfd3bb16118c04f838c?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"rypson.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.rypson.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a289969_w1906_t1501521682.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.rypson.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a289969_w1906_t1501521682.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.rypson.cz\/spravny-cas-na-dite\/","wordCount":622,"articleBody":"Za dob na\u0161ich maminek, i babi\u010dek to bylo jednoduch\u00e9. Pokud dvacetilet\u00e1 holka nebyla vdan\u00e1, a netla\u010dila p\u0159ed sebou ko\u010d\u00e1r, n\u011bco nebylo v po\u0159\u00e1dku a rodi\u010de m\u011bli obavy, \u017ee \u0159jim holka z\u016fstane na ocet.\u00a0Dnes to je kap\u00e1nek jinak, tak\u017ee spousta \u017een se p\u0159ed mate\u0159stv\u00edm rozhoduje, zda ned\u00e1 p\u0159ednost rad\u011bji kari\u00e9\u0159e p\u0159ed rodinou.Jak je to ale spr\u00e1vn\u011b?\u00a0Pokud mlad\u00e1 \u017eena ot\u011bhotn\u00ed po \u0161kole, nepl\u00e1novan\u011b, tak se holt ned\u00e1 nic d\u011blat a okol\u00ed se na to d\u00edv\u00e1 rozhodn\u011b l\u00e9pe, mnohdy i s nad\u0161en\u00edm, ne\u017e kdyby je\u0161t\u011b nem\u011bla ani maturitu. Tyto mlad\u00e9 maminky b\u00fdvaj\u00ed dost \u010dasto velmi energick\u00e9, pln\u00e9 n\u00e1pad\u016f a mnohdy i nevybou\u0159en\u00e9. Nav\u00edc maj\u00ed vesm\u011bs i je\u0161t\u011b vit\u00e1ln\u00ed rodi\u010de, kte\u0159\u00ed nenechaj\u00ed svoje d\u00edt\u011b ve \u0161tychu a v\u017edy nab\u00eddnou pomocnou ruku a mohou si tak naplno u\u017e\u00edt i vnou\u010d\u00e1tka (pokud tedy rodina nesd\u00edl\u00ed byt 1+1, tak\u017ee tam nen\u00ed k hnut\u00ed).\u00a0Takto mlad\u00e9 maminky si v\u011bt\u0161inou rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed nepl\u00e1nuj\u00ed a p\u0159ijde to tak n\u011bjak spont\u00e1nn\u011b, ale i mezi nimi jsou pochopiteln\u011b v\u00fdjimky, kdy miminko pl\u00e1nuj\u00ed – v tomto p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b je ide\u00e1ln\u00ed, kdy\u017e je partner o n\u011bco star\u0161\u00ed a dok\u00e1\u017ee rodinu zabezpe\u010dit po materi\u00e1ln\u00ed str\u00e1nce.\u00a0Pak jsou tu \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 ji\u017e maj\u00ed n\u011bco za sebou, dok\u00e1zaly se ji\u017e osamostatnit, maj\u00ed st\u00e1l\u00fd p\u0159\u00edjem, v\u011bt\u0161inou \u017eij\u00ed ve spole\u010dn\u00e9 dom\u00e1cnosti s partnerem a n\u011bjak podv\u011bdom\u011b, t\u0159eba i nev\u011bdomky se p\u0159ipravuj\u00ed na to, \u017ee se rozrostou o dal\u0161\u00edho \u010dlena dom\u00e1cnosti. Kdy\u017e na to p\u0159ijde \u0159e\u010d, tak se k tomu valn\u00e1 v\u011bt\u0161ina stav\u00ed tak, \u017ee zat\u00edm se o miminko nepokou\u0161\u00ed, ale kdyby se zada\u0159ilo, tak by se nezlobili a roli rodi\u010de by p\u0159ijali a t\u011b\u0161ili se ze spole\u010dn\u00fdch nov\u00fdch z\u00e1\u017eitk\u016f. Tyto matky, kter\u00fdm v\u00edcem\u00e9n\u011b nic nechyb\u00ed, si mate\u0159stv\u00ed dok\u00e1\u017eou u\u017e\u00edt a d\u00edt\u011bti se naplno v\u011bnovat.\u00a0Za sv\u016fj \u017eivot jsem se setkala i s velk\u00fdm mno\u017estv\u00edm \u017een, kter\u00e9 tvrdily, \u017ee je na d\u00edt\u011b je\u0161t\u011b \u010dasu dost, \u017ee te\u010f na to nen\u00ed vhodn\u00e1 doba, p\u0159esto, \u017ee finan\u010dn\u011b byly na tom v\u00edce, ne\u017e dob\u0159e, ale pr\u00e1ce a kari\u00e9ra byla na prvn\u00edm m\u00edst\u011b. Jen\u017ee, co si budeme namlouvat, pokud je n\u00e1m p\u0159ed \u010dty\u0159ic\u00edtkou, p\u0159\u00edroda se oblbnout ned\u00e1 a biologick\u00e9 hodiny tikaj\u00ed, mo\u017en\u00e1 i odb\u00fdvaj\u00ed posledn\u00ed hodinku.Netvrd\u00edm, \u017ee \u017eeny, p\u0159ed \u010dty\u0159ic\u00edtkou mus\u00ed m\u00edt v\u0161echny probl\u00e9m ot\u011bhotn\u011bt, ale dost \u010dasto to tak b\u00fdv\u00e1.\u00a0Bohu\u017eel, n\u011bkdy \u0161ance st\u00e1t se matkou proklouzne mezi prsty a pak si \u017eena, kter\u00e1 svou pr\u00e1ci stav\u011bla p\u0159ed v\u0161e ostatn\u00ed, uv\u011bdom\u00ed a\u017e zp\u011btn\u011b, co vlastn\u011b ztratila, o co p\u0159i\u0161la a \u017ee nikdy nezakus\u00ed, jak\u00e9 to je, b\u00fdt maminkou.Asi bych to shrnula tak, \u017ee nejde za\u0161katulkovat, kdy je ten nejlep\u0161\u00ed \u010das na d\u00edt\u011b, ale rozhodn\u011b bychom m\u011bly b\u00fdt zdrav\u00e9, m\u00edt po boku partnera, kter\u00fd se dok\u00e1\u017ee o rodinu postarat nejen po finan\u010dn\u00ed str\u00e1nce, m\u00edt n\u011bjak\u00e9 z\u00e1zem\u00ed, ale hlavn\u011b si v\u010das uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee „potom“ u\u017e m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt t\u0159eba pozd\u011b. A tomu pocitu, d\u00e1t \u017eivot \u010dlov\u011bku a st\u00e1t se maminkou se nevyrovn\u00e1 nic na sv\u011bt\u011b.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.6\/5 - (8 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Spr\u00e1vn\u00fd \u010das na d\u00edt\u011b","item":"https:\/\/www.rypson.cz\/spravny-cas-na-dite\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]